Rhaenyra, despite marrying Ser Laenor Velaryon, who much prefers the company of men, has long pursued her own romantic (read: physical) encounters with men. From Ser Criston to her uncle Daemon Targaryen, and even Ser Harwin Strong, who would later father her two eldest sons, Jacaerys and Lucerys. One can hardly claim that she finds men repulsive.